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Connect the Dots

June 14, 2019
By Jodie Rubenzer, Spiritual Director

Connect the Dots!

Do you remember as a kid the “connect the dot” color books and worksheets, you might have worked on in school or at home?  It was so much fun to see what image would appear as you connected the lines to the dots.   However, sometimes making a “wrong” connection would result in a not so recognizable image, resulting in eraser marks, crossed out lines and even sometimes ripped paper. 

I imagine all of us as part of a “connect the dot” image formed by the Divine Author of Creation.  I even permit myself to engage in this masterpiece as a co-creator.  Awaking each morning I pray to be mindful of the situations where I might become a line or the dot. Will I turn out to be the connecting point or the resting spot?   What prompted me to think about this is that recently there have been just too many occurrences of being in the “right place at the right time”.  Like walking into a place and unexpectedly running into someone I’ve been thinking about but hadn’t reached out too, and there they are.  As  I  walk away from an encounter like this,  feeling “heart full” and knowing I couldn’t have planned it any better if I’d have tried, I’m moved to the possibility that I’ve been in the midst of a Divine encounter.    We’ve all been given these moments; sometimes recognizing them on the spot, or after we’ve taken the time to look back and reflect. 

The take-away from all of this for me is a continued prayer for awareness.  I want to be ready and open to receive these moments with gratitude and assuredness.    I read once somewhere that we are all part of this great tapestry of life.  God sees the whole image; the finished product.  We see only the underside with knots and thread and color changes, giving us a faint depiction of this masterpiece.  However each line and stitch and dot, helps to reveal the full image, and no matter what, there are no slip ups when we (as Saint Mother Theresa so humbly prayed) “to become a pencil in God’s hand”.     


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Alleluia! Happy Easter

April 22, 2019
By Jodie Rubenzer, Spiritual Director
Alleluia!  Happy Easter!
What a wonderful time in the Church year as we enter into the joy of the season of Easter.  I’ve had the awesome privilege of journeying through RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) with 10 people and their sponsors, who were fully initiated and welcomed into the Catholic faith this past Saturday at the Easter Vigil.  While they are now fully initiated into this wonderful faith tradition, I have once again been renewed in mine.  This morning, through a reflection,  I was offered 8 Tips to Take Easter Home; bringing this season to life in a practical and ongoing way, through renewal of my own baptismal call.  I’d like to share these tips with you and extend you an invitation to do the same.
  1. Take and Easter Walk.  Over the next few days and weeks take a walk outside in the park, garden, woods, mall, wherever and look for new life.  Notice the buds on the trees and the smell of the earth coming to life.  Look for the presence of God which is all around us. 
  2. Rediscover your Baptism.  Look at the pictures of your own baptism or of your children.  Take out your baptismal candle and other items to display during the Easter season.  Pick up some newly blessed holy water from the baptismal font and sign yourself with it each morning as you make the Sign of the Cross.  Remember your Godparents and drop them a note or say a prayer of thanks for them. 
  3. Wear White.  For the next weeks wear a splash of white to remind yourself that on the day of your baptism you were “clothed in Christ.
  4. Light Candles.  Light candles at dinner time or in your main living space recall that Jesus is the light of the world.  As you light the candles say:   “Christ our light”. 
  5. Dress up your table throughout the Easter Season using your prettiest table cloth and finest dishes.  Make at least one meal time each week special.  Before each meal say the words:  “Jesus Bread of Life”. 
  6. Make bathing a time of Renewal.  As you shower or bathe, remember your baptism and say “Christ the water of Life”.  When you use oil or lotions, remember that you have been anointed with the spirit of Christ. 
  7. Let each day be a little Easter.  As you begin each day, start by saying “This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad”.   That is the traditional Easter psalm; Psalm 118.  Give yourself a few minutes of quiet, coffee time and consecrate your day to God.
  8. Write a thank you note.For the next 7 weeks write a note each week to someone you appreciate but maybe don’t share with them enough.  Before you hit send or seal the envelope, say a prayer of blessing over it. 
  In closing, I would like to end with the blessing used before Confirmation at the Easter vigil:
All – powerful God,
please bless us with the spirit of wisdom and understanding,
the spirit of right judgement and courage,
,the spirit of knowledge and reverence.
Fill us with the spirit of wonder and awe in your presence.
We ask this through Jesus our Lord, friend and Savior.  Amen
(tips adapted from Team RCIA)

Piling Up!!

March 04, 2019
By Jodie Rubenzer, Spiritual Growth
Piling Up!
We’ve been dumped on with lots of snow this past month.  For those who are reliant on cold and snow it’s been pennies from heaven, but for others it has caused a burden with extra money spent on snow removal, a challenge to get around and the extra task of managing schedules due to snow days!  Whatever the situation, it has certainly gotten our attention. 
            As I continue to tend to the snow in my driveway and watch the snow piles grow and the driveway narrow, a question arose in my spirit, “What might be piling up within your heart, dear Jodie?”  It certainly did not take me long to realize some of which was stirring and causing chaos, but also to realize what I have to be grateful for.              When I feel pressed upon I often experience feelings of weariness, fear, hardness of heart and insecurity that can alter my perception and keep me from dealing with things in a truthful way.  I see only the “piles” that cover the blessings. 
            This week begins Lent.  As a kid, I didn’t always appreciate this season; I only saw the drudgery of Lent and having to go without candy or TV or grumbling because we knelt to pray the rosary as a family each night after supper.  However this has changed and Lent offers me a chance to start again, to “triumph over the piles”.  Instead of giving up, I am committing to get going and choose “letting go” as a way of discovering what’s in the layers of my “piles”.  I trust that the work of letting go will help to create space; space for the graces that only God can give.  By doing my inner work, I hope to begin to see not the burdens, but the blessings.  On Ash Wednesday we will have the opportunity to come together as “Church” and sing in unified voices, “Come back to me with all your heart, don’t let fear keep us apart”.  What a wonderful invitation! 
            This Lent, I am going to commit to enter more fully and with greater awareness into God, asking God to help me clear those piles that have become barriers to my blessings.  I would like to invite you to join me.
May Lenten Peace and Joy be yours. 
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Epiphany Moments: The Hunting Soul

January 04, 2019
By Jodie Rubenzer, Spiritual Director
Epiphany Moments: The Hunting Soul.
What if the Magi hadn’t paused to look up and see the star?  Think of the beautiful encounter they would have missed. 
Today, I took the time to pause and look.  Seems rather simple but man I can miss some pretty awesome moments right in front of my nose.  Take yesterday and today for instance, the morning and evening skies have been brilliant with color.  As I sat in my favorite chair sipping on my first cup of coffee, I admired still, the lights of the Christmas tree and looking a little deeper saw the pile of dust bunnies that had accumulated under the TV stand. J  So what made this morning different from other mornings…..I allowed myself to ponder.    I was feeling extremely grateful; and gratitude allowed me to see through a different lens. 
Pulling out my daily reading books my interest piqued to see that both reflections had been written by the same author, for the same date, but in different books.  A coincidence?  Not likely.  God wanted me to get this message.
The first reading came from Joyce Rupp’s book, Fragments of your Ancient Name, written by Karl Rahner SJ’:   “Only when the hunting soul comes near you with respectful openness and humble desire, will the immensity of your simple presence shine forth with strobe light awareness”. 
“Hunting soul and strobe light awareness”… these phrases jumped off the page.  They seem to contradict one another with “hunting soul” evoking images of slow movement, quiet, patient, preparation and the other just                                              being astonishingly there.  Both of these phrases however reminded me of the responsibility I have to continue to move and do my part in seeking and maintaining my relationship with God.  Like the Magi, I must continue to look to observe the signs placed before me and continue on the journey and yes sometimes those signs might have to be really obvious in order for me to see, like an obnoxious strobe light. 
The second reading came from An Ignatian book of days and read:  “Wherever space is really left by parting – by death – by renunciation – by apparent emptiness- provided that emptiness is not filled by the world, or activity, or chatter, or the deadly grieve of the world – there God is”. 
Empty space, what does this look like?  Well as I look around my home decorated still for Christmas, there is not much space left open.  And the days leading up to Christmas were packed with preparations and family and friend gatherings, little space there too.  So I think that as I sat there still in jammies and a warm cup in hand, God was challenging me to turn off the “no vacancy” sign in my life and decide how together we can rid the clutter or rearrange how I want to fill these “spaces”  moving forward.   Ponder!  So that’s what it meant when the scriptures say “Mary pondered all this in her heart”.  With the swirling events of this young mom’s life and all that was happening in the days that followed Jesus’ birth we read, Mary pondered.  I like to imagine this meant she gave herself time to reflect before being called into action again.    So I too must receive this invitation to ponder  and reflect before forging forward, trusting that God will know what I might need.
So as we near the end of the 12 days of Christmas and recall the journey of the Magi, may we too be prompted to “look up” to see with the intensity of “strobe light awareness” the star or the sky or the person put in our path guiding us to that “soul encounter” with the Baby, born in a manger 2000 years ago.  And like Mary, may we “ponder” this experience and return by a different way being forever changed.
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